Showing posts with label From Harold Carlson. Show all posts
Showing posts with label From Harold Carlson. Show all posts

Wednesday, September 10, 2014

Finishing up Texas before continuing with Topaz

 Obituary [probably Deseret News 13 June 1942]

Alvin E. Carlson
Alvin E. Carlson of 770 Springview Drive, died yesterday afternoon in a local hospital.
Mr. Carlson was born Sept. 16, 1883 in Pleasant Grove, Utah son of Isaac E. and Mary Anderson Carlson.


He was married Oct 2, 1907 to Hannah Jane Smith in the Salt Lake Temple.  He was a member of the Quorum of Seventy of the Springview Ward.  Mr. Carlson had been a plumbing and heating contractor for 25 years.
Surviving him are his widow: four sons. Kenneth A., Gordon S. and Robert D. Carlson of Salt Lake and Harold E. Carlson of San Antonio, Tex.: three daughters. Mrs. Ruth Owen and Mrs Genevieve Wigginton of Salt Lake and Mrs. Jean Quist of Holladay.: nine grandchildren: two brothers. Ra Carlson of Albion, Ida., and Hiram Carlson of Charleston, Utah; and one sister, Mrs. Effie Astin of Pleasant Grove.
Burial will be in the Pleasant Grove Cemetery.

Postcard postmarked Jun 15 10 AM 1942 Salt Lake City, Utah addressed to Mrs. H.E. Carlson 643 Cedar St., San Antonio, Texas





S.L.C.
Mon. 7:30 am.

Dearest,
Arrived here at 6:30 Bob is taking me home.  I’ll write you a long letter this evening after the services.
Darling be careful and I’ll be seeing you.  The services are at 3:00 p.m. today.
Harold            


Box 12 Burns Oregon
June 16th 42.
My Dear Laura,
I received both your letters with the sad news of Bro. Carlson’s death;.  Helen sent me a card Friday.  I received it yesterday.  I am glad Harold was able to go home and that you are all right there, with good neighbors and friends.  I know Harold will feel bad that he couldn’t see his Dad alive again but that is the way life is mostly.  Though at longest it will only be a few years and we will all pass on after our work on life is done, and meet our loved ones who have gone on before, so don’t mourn too much.  The Lords ways are not our ways and his wisdom and knowledge are past finding out.  It is a good thing that Bro. Carlson didn’t have to linger in pain at the hospital as so many have to do.  Mother Carlson will feel it the most.  She has always waited on him and I could see, the last time I was there before I left to come here that he wasn’t feeling good but was just as cheerie as ever and joking.  She was telling me about what Sister Van Dam said and I could see that it grieved him very much.  I hope Harold will be able to comfort his mother and that all the boys will rally around her and see to it that she won’t suffer for the necessities of  life.  It will be a trying time for her without the feeling of insecurity.  I know the Lord will Bless her and open up a way for her.  The loss of her husband she will feel all the days of her life, but the Lord will help to bind up the broken heart and she may live to do much good with her family and loved ones.  Bro. Carlson is released from all that pain and anxiety and I think he knew that he would not get better.  Harold will give you all the news when he comes back to you.  I hope that the hot spell has passed and that you are not suffering too much.  I hope Alvin is better and that his teeth will soon come through. Give him a big hug from Grandma and do take care of yourself.  I am glad that Reed is with you until Harold gets back.   We are all well here.  I am going home next week about Friday.  I will be home Sat. 27th.  I will spend our anniversary here.  It is also Daniel’s birthday, and Father’s day.  It will be a sad Father’s day for the Carlson children, but he was a good father to them and they ought to be thankful for that, and they had him a good many years.  Now my dear Laura I won’t write more I have to write to Jesse.  He is having it hot like you.  Love and kisses to you and dear little Alvin.  Lovingly Mother.

                             
                             S.L.C.
                             June 16, 1942

Dearest Laura,

I received your letter of the 14th this morning.  It was lovely and certainly a balm for a tender and sore heart.  Yesterday was lovely quite cloudy and a little breeze but at any rate very comfortable.  The services were the most beautiful that the heart can imagine.  I will not try to describe them it to you now as I’m sure I could not do it justice.  I will tell you all about it when I’m back with you again which I hope won’t be many days.  I’m going to town today to see the teacher’s retirement office and will try this evening to see Mr. Maughn after which I’ll know more about increasing the loan.  I’ll try to see Mark and Carry too but they are both working.  Mark night and day.  I won’t forget to visit the others either but hope I can get it all done in a couple of days as I’m too lonesome for you and Alvin to stay longer.  I would like to leave for Texas by Thursday.  I’ll talk with Helen about the basket.  I can’t think of more.  I want to have you in my arms when I tell you the rest.  Mother is a brick and I’m sure with our faith and prayers she will make it ok.                                                            All my love
Harold
  
[Letter from Daniel Davidson enclosed in envelope addressed to Jane S. Davidson c/. R. S. Davidson]
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                                                                                                                                      June 14, 1942
Dear Mom:
Sorry I’ve been so neglectful in writing.  I haven’t been able to be home very many nights.  The work is piling up, and I have to put in some overtime work.  I hope you are well.  Don’t worry about any of us.  We are well and happy.  Mary Jane is cutting more teeth.  I think her upper teeth will come in a few days.


Mary will see you in Salt Lake about July 18 to Aug. 18. I may get a day or so, but so far the boss says “No.”  We are so busy that there is no time to give anyone a vacation.  I think if I stick to my job there will be a better chance for advancement.  I don’t have my new leg yet, but I am going into L.A. sometime this week for a fitting.  I don’t know how long it will be after the fitting, but it has been 2 weeks since I was measured.
This is Father’s Day, and I want to tell you how proud I am that my Dad was such a wonderful man.  I hope that I can be known for good as he is.  I know that if he had been permitted to stay with us that his good work would have grown and his name would have been more widely known for his goodness and character as well as his work.  He was a wonderful Father.  We are all proud of him and you too since you have carried on for both and given us all a home to be proud of and a heritage that excels above any.
Mary and Mary Jane gave me a shirt & tie & tie holder for Father’s Day.  It makes me stop and kind of take inventory to see if I’m living worthy of the title “Father”.  I find that I could improve immensely if I am to become as good a Father as Dad was.  I have no right to permit myself to be less than He and yet it is such a high goal to attain.  I must have the spirit of our Heavenly Father with me even to do half so well.  I pray that I may have the courage to stand always for those principles and ideals that he stood for.  I pray too that I may always abide by the laws and ordinances of the Gospel.  We all need our Heavenly Father’s assistance in all our undertakings.
We have heard from Laura & Helen, but haven’t heard from Jesse in a long time.  We were glad to hear that Lois and baby are both well and doing fine.  I surely would like to see the bunch of them.  Don’t worry about Roland working too hard.  He won’t work too hard.  Work is good for the body and soul.  He will be far ahead of everyone else.  He must take care of his body to enable him to keep working at such a pace, but I am sure that he has the wisdom and understanding to do that.  He is a fine Father, a wonderful brother, an excellent husband and a lovely son.  I hope that I will be able to follow his example.
Well Mom, I’ll write the next time to you in Salt Lake.  I’ll do my best to get there, but the chances are slim.  Take care of yourself.  I hope it isn’t as warm in Salt Lake as it is here.  It cools off at night, but the days are quite warm and sticky. 
May the Lord bless you
Your loving Son,
Dan
Best love from Mary and Mary Jane

                                                                                                                                       June 22, 1942

Dear Mother,
I’m ashamed of myself for neglecting to write all last week, & especially on your anniversary and Fathers Day, because I fully intended to, but was so concerned about Harold and everyone at home, and then I was so tired having Alvin all day every day, I usually went to bed with him.


Harold came back yesterday morning after having been on the bus 3 nights & 3 days.  He was pretty tired, & this morning has taken Alvin with him to get his shoes mended.  Other than being tired Harold feels fine about his trip home, and is so happy he could go.  He said that Mother Carlson is well, and holding up fine.  One thing he told me that made me feel good was that the night before Dad died Harley Wiggington went up & talked with him for the first time in nearly a year.
Alvin’s heat rash is cleared up completely, but I had to use a heat rash powder, but it cleared it up in 3 days.  That terrible heat only lasted 3 days but the temperature went up to 112o
It was 105o in the house.  Ordinarily it ranges from 85o to 100o from morning to evening.  The fan we bought helps a great deal, and it wouldn’t feel so hot if you didn’t perspire so much all the time.  In the evening there is always a breeze, and we have got used to bathing every day, & staying in the house between 12 & 4.  But at beast, it is hot.  And after you have been in Oregon where it is so cool I’m just wondering if the sudden change in climate would be too good for you.  But on the other hand, we would like to have you come very much, and we feel that we can have someone come in & do the work, so you would not have anything to exert yourself with, and as long as you don’t have to work in this heat, you don’t feel it.
If you still think you would like to come, we will be able to send some money by July 10, altho because of Harolds trip we will only be able to send enough for one way, plus $10. For expenses on the way.  We’re just hoping the baby doesn’t come before then.  Harold brought the baby basket with him, & that will save us a little.  Mont & Helen filled it with jam, Alvin’s toys, & Harold’s garments.  Also 2 pr of garments for me, & a few odds & ends I had left.  The one pr. Of cotton garments she sent size 40 must have been yours I guess, but they are going to be fine.
Sister Carlson sent a batiste night gown for my birthday so that gives me 3 I can wear and that will be plenty.  Everything seems to be coming along pretty good, altho we have to be careful.  We feel if we try to do what is right, everything will work out for us.
I want to get this letter off today so you’ll get it before you leave.  I just got your letter this morning.  It took it nearly a week, & was the first letter I’d had from anyone since Harold left.  It is good to have him back.  Alvin was afraid of him, and didn’t know him for a while.  Today he won’t let Harold out of his sight.
I told you Reed was going to get married, but 2 days after he gave his girl a ring he got notice to report for duty in the army today in Salt Lake.  However he had his entry transferred here, & will enter from here this Fri or Sat.
Well, I want to write to Mother Carlson, & so does Harold.  It is nearly 12, & time to get dinner & fix lunches.
Tell the family in Burns hello and I hope Lois & Lois Ann are getting along fine by now.
Your letter this morning surely helped.  Harold & I were both happy to hear from you.
With Love,
Laura


Vale Hotel Oregon
Friday evening
[June 26, postmarked June 27, 1942]

Dear Laura & Harold,
I am on my way home.  Roland  had business in Vale so I came with him. 


Sat. morning at Caldwell Idaho.  I started this letter last night and found that I had no ink in my pen.  I slept at Vale Hotel and was awakened this morning at 3: a.m. with a fire alarm. The fire was on the outskirts of town.  My bus left at 4:20 so I just got up and dressed.  I hated to  leave Roland. We are now at Nampa for a few minutes.  I don’t know where I will mail this but I am writing it in hopes that I can finish it before I get to Salt Lake.  I get there at 9:30 this evening.  I don’t mind riding on the bus.  I got your letter before I left saying that Harold got back all right.  I am glad that he was able to go home and I am sure his Mother needed him.  I had a letter from Helen before I left and she told me she had some Southern people there from Alabama.  They expected Jennette to be in Salt Lake.  They came to go through the Temple.  They are staying at our place.  It seems that Mont’s job is finished and they want him to go to Ogden.  It is always changes.  Just arrived at Boise, had a cup of chocolate and toast, am feeling fine.  I have to wait here an hour so I will mail this from here.  I had a letter from Daniel the other day.  He says Mary is coming to Salt Lake for month from July 18th to Aug. 18th.  He doesn’t get a vacation only for a day or so at a time.
I don’t know whether I will see her or not as I intended to leave for your place about the 15th of July or do you want me earlier.  I thought I would go to see Jennette for a week or so, but may change my plans when I get home.  How much does it cost on the bus to San Antonio.  Just send me half fare and I will only need not more than $3.00 for expenses, and I hope not that much.  I will be happy to see you.  I was going to write Harold’s Mother, but could not remember the address, but will see her when I go home.
It rained at Burns the last 2 days.  Here at Boise the sun is shining bright and it is nice and warm.  It was cool on the bus.  I am wearing my suit and it is quite comfortable.  I also have my navy blue coat and had it wrapped around my feet.  What will I wear down there.  Now dear children bye bye and write soon. I will try and borrow some ink to address the envelope, and will mail this here.  Love and kisses to you and dear little Alvin.  
Lovingly Mother.

 Salt Lake City
 June 27, 1942

Dear Harold and Laura.
Your letter came a day or two ago.  It was greatly appreciated.  We are getting along pretty well.  Aunt Nell has left and Jean has moved so you can never know the lonesomeness although Jean has been up every day but that can not last for long.
Its impossible for me to realize that Dad has gone.  His clothes still hangs in the closet and his presents always seems near but you will never know.  I can hardly live.
Its pay day today and I really have the blues.  If the boys can always have work is my constant prayer because I am depending entirely on them.
Then there is Robert.
He got his certificate yesterday making him a full fledged Ensign signed by Secretary Knox with the United States Navel Seal on it.  
We think we have a little pull for goverment help, will tell you later if it developes.


Robert is very proud of this certificate.
I can’t write more this time.  Please forgive me.
Lovingly
Mother [Carlson]


                              July 9, 1942

Dear Mother,
I’m tired tonight, & it has been a little warmer than usual, but I did want to get a letter off to you.  You’ll get it Monday and probably will leave by Wed. evening.  The 7:00 P.M. train from the D & RG makes the best connections I believe.
I wanted to remind you to call Sister Laxman & get Mabel’s address.  You will undoubtedly have a stop over of several hours in Denver and I believe Mabel is working in the mission ofc.  If so you could take a taxi from the station & rest at the mission home while you are there.  If I were you I’d check your bag, & carry a towel & wash cloth & soap in a small box. A suit case is just a nuisance, especially when you have a couple of 2 hr stop-overs.  You might just have your knitting bag in your hands, nothing more.  You can get all you’ll need on the trip in it.  You’ll be safe to take your light coat, but my guess is that you won’t need it after you leave Denver.
I can hardly wait until you get here.  A week tomorrow you’ll be here if you leave the 15th.  Hope you got the check from Wid ok.
Last night some of the ladies made a special point to invite me to Relief Society, & when I got there they had a baby shower for me.  All the women in the branch turned out.  I was so surprised, & to think the people could be so kind when we’ve been here so short a time.  They gave me 3 lovely blankets, 4 dresses, 2 sleeveless shirts & 2 bands, 2 pads & 2 crib sheets (cotton) a rubber sheet for the basket, some croqued shoes, a knit night gown, towels & wash cloths, a baby book, 2 pair of silk white ankle sox, and more.  I won’t need to buy anything with the exception of a doz. diapers, the thin ones.  The people down here have hearts of gold.  Some that I’d only met came.  It was really lovely.  I invited Ruth Lundgren to go to the meeting to get her started to Relief Society, & she was the only one besides myself that didn’t know about the shower.  She felt as embarrassed as I.
Well, I could go on & on, but I must get some rest.
God bless you Mother, & may you have a pleasant & safe trip down.
With love
Laura
P.S.  If the large rubber sheet is still about will you bring it?  Could you find out what station you will arrive at here.  There is the M.K.T. the Missouri Pacific, Southern Pacific, & one other I believe.  It will make it easier for us to meet you if they can give you that information.  Other than that just let us know the day & the time you leave home, & we can check on when you will arrive.
With Love,
Laura



                                   



July 21, 1942
                                 
                                 643 Cedar St.
 Dear Dan & Mary,
We received your lovely letters Sat. morning, and were so happy to hear from you.  It is too bad you were both disappointed on your trip to Salt Lake.  It seems like we can’t count on anything being definite these days.  We have to take each day as it comes, and if things don’t go our way we have to take it with a smile anyway.
Mother didn’t go to Tabiona as she had planned.  The trucks were all crowded with people going up for the fourth and Mom just couldn’t find a way up.  Jennette I’m sure must have been disappointed.  Mom expected to stay in Salt Lake until Mary came on Sat. but Mother Carlson felt like she ought to come down here as soon as she could so she left Salt Lake Tues evening, and got here Friday morn on my birthday.  It was one of the nicest birthday gifts I’ve ever had.  She came all that long way on the Bus.  She said the trains frighten her, and she was very tired when she arrived.  I believe she still is tired.  We were up at 7:A.M. this morning, & by 10 she laid down on the couch, & went to sleep.  It is 11:30 now and she is still there.  It will take her a little while to get used to the climate.  I hope she can have a good rest before the baby comes, and then I’ll have someone in to help her then too.  I’m going to a Catholic hosp.  It seems to be the best one here too.
When Mother heard you weren’t coming to Salt Lake Mary, she was glad she left when she did.  I believe the trip was quite hard on her, altho she said it wasn’t bad.  She just bought a one way ticket here, and when she leaves she will buy her ticket from here to Salt Lake via San Bernardino.  And if you feel like you can pay a portion of it all well & good.
It sounds like you are really having it hot there.  At least your nights are cool.  The temp. here lately has ranged between 80o & 95o.  It is about 95o when we go to bed, & by morning it will usually get back down to 80o & then start climbing again.  Mom says she doesn’t feel the heat here anymore than at home except that she can’t get used to the perspiration running down her face all the time.  She will sit & sew & the water will run down & cover her glasses.  Her hair is always wet, & she has had to keep it braided to keep it any where near dry.  She had a wool jacket started for me, but the heat won’t permit her to work on it.
Alvin runs around in a sun suit, & is brown as his hair which is still a golden brown.  You can hardly tell where his hair begins it is so near the color of his skin.  We had quite a scare with him just about a month ago.  He was playing with a dog, & the dog turned on him & bit him in the eye, & on the head.  We still can’t understand how his eye escaped injury, because the dog bit down inside the lower lid.  The Dr. had to take a stitch in his head, & it is just now healing.  There is still a bit of the scab that hasn’t come off.  People here are so afraid of dog bites because of rabbies.  We had to report it to the board of health, & they came out & examined the dog twice within 10 days (the danger period) & made the people keep the dog tied up for the 10 days.  If the dog had taken sick within 10 days Alvin would have had to take shots for rabbies, one every day for 14 days in the pit of the stomach.  We were so thankful he didn’t have too.  Besides being painful they are quite expensive.
Mother is awake & I’ll leave to fix dinner.  She insists I finish.  She got your letter ok.  Helen sent it & it came the same day we got yours.  She intended writing to you this morning, & I was just going to write a short note to put in with hers, but she says now she will write in aa few days.
Mary Jane will be a year old in a few days, and I’ll bet she is cute.  You will have to send a picture of her.  Just wait until she starts walking then climbing.  Last night we put Alvin to bed then went out on the porch for about an hour.  When we came in I walked thru the house without turning on lights until I got to the kitchen & looked in to see if Alvin was ok.  He wasn’t in his bed, & I looked all over for him.  We found him asleep on the floor in the doorway from the hall into the bathroom.  He climbs in & out of bed when he pleases.
Well Dan & Mary.  I’ll stop now, but will write again soon.  We’ll expect to hear from you soon too.
With Love,
Laura
 [Laura’s note:  Mother came to San Antonio for the Birth of Betty, then continued on to San Bernardino to visit my brother  Daniel and Mary.]
                                                                                                                                        643 Cedar St
                                                                                                                                San Antonio, Tex
                                                                                                                                          Aug 4th 42.

Dear Daniel & Mary


I guess you are wondering what has happened to me.  I know I ought to have written to you when I cam here but with Laura writing I thought I would wait till the baby came but the baby hasn’t come yet and it is a week over due and I am getting tired of putting off writing to you.  I hope you are all fine how is little Mary Jane standing the heat.  I hope she is well.  Dosn’t she have a birthday soon. and I think one of Willards children has a birthday also but I don’t know when.  You will all have to send me a Genealogical sheet with all your dates on it.  I can’t remember and I don’t want to forget Birthdays not that I can buy presents but I do want to wish the children a happy Birthday So I wish Mary Jane a happy birthday when it comes.  We are all fine here.  Laura is fine we are all patiently waiting for the baby.  I don’t hear much from home.  The last letter I had was from Pearl.  They are well.  Mont & Helen had been out that Sunday for dinner.  They had taken Thora Walker out with them.  She was in Salt Lake for the week end.  She is working in Carlin Nevada her home town.  Jennette was well when I heard.  So was Roland & Lois and children.  They have two missionaries at Burns with them now.  So Roland will have some help.  I hope that both of you will write to Jesse as often as you can.  He expects to be moved by the 10th of Aug. but doesn’t know where they will send him.  It has been sweltering hot is Sikeston [Missouri] and he feels it very much.  It has been pretty hot here but not much warmer than at home.  If only I didn’t sweat so much I really could stand it but I sweat so much my face aches.  My body isn’t so bad, just my face and hair.  This is a lovely clean place and I like it very much.  I will write after the baby comes and let you (sweat drops) know how things are.  You will have to excuse the sweat drops and I won’t write more now.  Some time when I am in town I may get Mary Jane something for her birthday.  I have only been in town with Laura to get some things from the drug store and it was so hot we came right home.  Now my dear Children write to me often whither I write to you or not.  I always look for a letter and one really gets lonesome for a letter here.  I have gone to church twice since I came.  The people at church are very nice.  They have been kind to Laura and gave her a shower and she lot a nice lot of baby things.  All except diapers and we bought a doz since I came.  Now I think I have given you all the news and that you will write to me soon and tell me all that you are doing.  Have you any fruit there we have no fruit here or nice vegetables.  I guess it is between seasons.  I would like a nice feed of Peaches.  Bye bye & write soon.  Lots of Love from Mother to Daniel Mary & Mary Jane. write soon.

 [postcard]                                                                                                                        Aug 6, 1942

Dear Dan & Mary, and Happy birthday Mary Jane.
It is a shame Betty couldn’t wait another day to come when she was already so late.  But the little dickens was here in 10 min less than 2 hrs once she decided to come.  A little too fast for comfort.  It happened tho that the Dr. was in the hosp., & just stayed right here.  She weighted 9 lbs 7 oz. & looks like a little butter ball.  Has very dark hair, & lots of it.  Altho it seems very fine.  Her eyes are very dark blue.  All the nurses say she looks like she is half grown.  I feel simply wonderful & have almost decided to have 14 yet.  I don’t even feel like I’ve had a baby compared to last time.  Harold didn’t have time to worry & fret, & Mother is glad Betty is here. - More later.  Hope to hear from you soon.  Love Laura

                                                                                                                                  643 Cedar Street
                                                                                                                           San Antonio, Texas.
                                                                                                                                          Sept 9th 42.

Did I write to tell you about the Hurricane that we had here.  It was awful, a week ago last Sunday.  I will tell you about it when I come.

Dear Daniel,


I thought I would have answered your letter by this time, but the time just flies past, and it seems as if after the little work is done there is not much energy left.  Anyway we are all well, Harold is better of his cold and Laura & Baby are fine.  Alvin has a slight cold but I guess he will be all right soon.  Did Mary and Baby go to Salt Lake.  I hope she will have a nice visit with her Mother and friends.  I guess I will leave here the end of this month or the first week in Oct, and will stay with you 2 weeks and be home by the end of Oct.  That is what I am planning.  It will cost me about _0 more to come round by San Bernardino but I do want to see you.  Jennette wants me to come and stay with her in Tabiona this winter.  Burnell has to can go herd sheep and make good wages and she thinks if I came up there with her they would live in Uncle Ben’s house down in town and be near the church & store, and have light & good water, what do you think.  Have you heard from Jesse.  He has been transferred to address = 1416 Blytheville Ark.  He has had a touch of Malaria but is feeling better.  He was in bed several days in the hot weather and it wasn’t fun.  Tomorrow is Helen’s & Lorna Jane’s Birthday.  I wrote to Helen, it is hard for me to remember the grand childrens birthdays.  I will soon have to look on the calander every day and have the days marked but I don’t have a record of their birthdays.  I will have to do better than I am doing.  I had a letter from Aunt Maggie from Scotland.  They are all pretty well, but feeling the brunt of the war after 4 yrs of it.  Lizzie’s husband is still away somewhere, but was getting home on leave.  I have not heard nor written to Aunt Jesse for a long time.  I hope you will write to Jesse & Jennette.  Jennette feels kind of lonesome as she can’t get down and no one comes up.  They are all busy putting up fruit and vegetables.  How is the weather there now.  We still have it hot, it has been raining for several nights and it gets hot again in the day time the rain does not cool it off much.  We had a letter from Bishop and Sister DeYoung last week.  The Bishop has been feeling the heat this summer, and he has to be careful of what he does.  I was happy to hear of one of your Sunday School Class joining the Church.  We all have a great deal of work to do in this church.  It is a pity that the world ignores the truth as they do surely we as Latter day saints have lots to be thankful for.  The Lord has surely blessed us to be able to bear our testimony that we are even a humble member in this church, and it is too bad that some of our members does not realize their blessings.  Now dear Daniel it is time to be getting dinner and I want Harold to mail this.  He works from 3 P.M. to 11 so he leaves for work right after dinner.  Hope you & Mary & Mary Jane are feeling fine, and that I will be seeing you soon if I can get enough money to come.  Don’t go worrying about money, if we all keep well we are surely blessed and the Lord will open up the way for us all if we are faithful with lots of Love from Mother.
(Do you hear from Roland.  Write to him if you can. )

                                  643 Cedar Street
                                  San Antonio, Texas
                                  Sept. 13, 1942

Dear Dan,

We heard that Mary was in Salt Lake, and would be until this coming Fri.  I’ll bet you miss her and the baby.  We are all so homesick for Salt Lake we don’t know what to do.  At the present time we are just enduring the heat. September so far has been worse than the rest of the summer.  We are all covered with heat rash except Harold & the baby.  I don’t know how they escape.  Mother’s & Alvin’s arms look almost raw with it.  We are just hoping for a let-up in the weather.  You probably heard of the hurricane we had Aug 30, that caused over a million-dollars worth of damage here, and nearly scared us all to death, well since then the air has just seemed charged with heat.  We will just have to pray for cool weather.
Alvin has been quite hot, cranky with the heat, and he is still cutting teeth, & on top of that has a cough.  We have to be so patient with him it is pitiful.
Well Dan, as Mother wrote and told you she has kinda’ been planning to leave here the first week in October, but – If it is still as hot as it is now she won’t go till it gets cooler.  And then – we have really had some expenses since we came, and I’m sure we will not have enough put by at that time for her full fair.  From here to S.L. by way of S.B. is near $40.00.  38 something I believe.  Now, if you could send some money to us to help out a little, it would be so much cheaper to buy the complete ticket here.  We want Mom to stay with us as long as she will, and we would like to have her stay and enjoy some cool weather.  So if you can’t send any money by Oct. 1, we would be glad to have her stay here longer.  Anyway write & tell us if this interupts any plans of yours, and we will cooperate with you.
Harold is working again tonight, and this afternoon.  Mom & I took the kids & went visiting.  Guess who –.  Harvey Felt & his wife.  They are here for 2 or 3 months installing telephones.  Ruth Linnaback & her husband are also here for a couple of months.  I haven’t seen Ruth yet, but Mother & Harold saw her this morning in Sun. School.  There is really a swarm of Salt Lakers coming in.
Well Dan this is about all I feel up to writing tonight, except that we are all well, and we have the best baby ever.  She is so good we sometimes forget we’ve got her.  Write to us real soon, & let us know what you can do, and if you have any plans, & what they are regarding Mom coming.

With Love - Laura

Sunday, August 10, 2014

a lot of letters to give a better picture of a hard time - sickness, fishing, depression, Black Hills Vacation

Forwarded to Mrs. Jane S. Davidson, c/o B. M. Turnbow, Tabiona, Utah

                                                            July 2, 1953
Dear Mother,

            The children are eating breakfast, and I have just been typing a letter for Harold, so thought I could start one to you before I quit.  We have been up so late every night lately, and up so early every morning, yet the day in between goes so fast that we just can’t account for them.  From last Thursday until now we have been busy on the peas.  We have over 50 lbs. frozen in the locker, and have had plenty to eat, but it has been a big job.  The children have been good to help, and yet we are all tired out.  The heat has been terriffic.  This morning however it is cooler, and cloudy.  We are all just worn out from the heat.  The bedrooms are so hot at night no one wants to go to bed.  The baby surely sleeps good tho, and surprising as it is, he keeps a cover on all night.  He slept last night from 7 until 6 this morning.  He is just as solid as he can be.  I am still nursing him but he gets cereal and milk, and sometimes a little vegetable.

            Harold’s hand has flaired up again.  Last week it seemed completely better, and then we started the peas, and he was home Friday and Satruday helping, and Sunday it started swelling.  He has had several ex-rays, but they show nothing.  As long as he kept it in a sling the swelling went.  Harold said that yesterday the Dr. described it as proud flesh under the skin.  And the treatment, soaking in hot water.  He is able to go to the medical unit twice a day at work and soak it, and he does it often while he is home.  And we are trying to see that he doesn’t use it any more than is necessary.  He has had quite a few problems lately that have kept him up till late.

            Alice is getting to be quite a stinker.  She wants something, and she just screams until the children give it to her to get her to stop screaming.  Two days ago I just splashed cold water in her face while she was in one of her screams, and it seems to have toned her down considerably.  She was down to one nipple, and it was big and flabby, and last Sat. she bit it in two.  I offered her the baby’s nipple, and she would have none of it.  So since Sat. she has been going without a bottle.  I hope it is the end of it for her, although these past few days has been quite an ordeal, especially giving her every little thing she happens to want.  It is primary today at 9:30 so I had better stop and get my own breakfast, and get them off.  Alvin is back from camp, and is hard at work on his collections.  He only has 2 more days, and he has barely started.  He has 3 people who hasn’t paid him for 3 months, and they keep telling him to come back.  Harold says if he doesn’t get them this week, that he is going out and get it.
           
            Well, It is afternoon already, and Alice is asleep, the baby is laying in his buggy beside me, Laura is outside playing, and the four oldest have gone swimming.  The house is cool and quiet.  The heat outside is almost unbearable tho.  There are storm clouds in the sky, and the heat just seems to press down on us.  This morning while the little ones were at Primary Alvin and I cleaned out the frig, and about half of the kitchen cupboards.  We did half of them last week, and now they are all done.  I’ve got quite a stiff neck from fixing peas, but a little rest is all I need.  I promised my self I would make myself a dress this week, and so I am going to make this letter short, and get started on it again.
            Laura had a nice birthday Sunday, and she surely was proud of her card and her dime.  She displayed it to everyone.  I paid $4.00 for a dress for her.  It is an embossed cotton, and won’t need ironing.  I also got her pants, sox, and a pair of pajamas.  She has been wearing those heavy ones until Sunday, and they are pretty near gone.

            I hear Alice waking up, and things are beginning to pop again.

            I am feeling much better the last two weeks than I have since the baby was born.  It seems as tho it takes me 3 or 4 months to come any where near back to normal.  I told you I had a green discharge sometimes even before you left, and I didn’t go see the Dr. until 2 weeks ago, and he found an infection, that was quickly stopped with some sulfa salve.  He also gave me some Iron capsules.  They cost 7¢ each, and he gave me about 75 of them.  I take 3 a day, and it seems to help, also it makes me so that I am not quite so hungry.  I have gained weight again like I did after Alice.  I weigh 150 again, and I only weighed 154 when Harold was born.  I shouldn’t have put off going to the Dr. as long as I did.

            I had a letter from Jennette, and she said that most of her garden was froze last week.  The weather is so strange.  We can have it so hot for a week, then two or 3 days when we almost have to put on a fire.

            Bob and Mary Louise Carlson came to see us about 4 weeks ago.  We didn’t know they were coming, and we had a lovely 2 days with them.  Mary Louise sent me a box of a dozen bottles of baby vitimans yesterday.  It will surely help out.  Their baby is a fatty, and so cute.  Harold and Bob went fishing one day, while we took the children to the part, and museum.  The other day, we took them to Colorado Springs, and had a wonderful relaxing day.

            I must stop now, I have stopped a dozen times in the last half hour to do something or other.  I am inclosing a check.  It was just forgetfulness that I haven’t done it before.  We are planning on a picnic with the Runyans and Bohn’s up Boulder canyon for the 4th.  We are going to have breakfast, and lunch and come home early in the afternoon.  That way we will miss the worst of the crowd.  Take care of yourself Mother, and be careful in this heat.
                                               
                                                Lovingly,

                                                            Laura



From: 18153 Lermay St., Reseda, Calif

Forwarded to:  Mrs. Jane Davidson, c/o B. M. Turnbow, Tabiona, Utah    

                                                  July 5, 1953
                                                  We are out of ink
My Darling Mother
            Sorry I have been so slow.  I didn’t realize it has been so long since I wrote last.  Royce has painted our house so that it will be clean to sell.  We called Bishop Heninger to come & look at it so it can be listed.
            Royce & I decided nearly a month ago to write Lois and tell her not to send the girls but I’ve put off writing to her too.  I’ve finally written now.  It would just mean 2 more for Royce to tend.  We have plenty of help here anyway.
            Sis Mordue, our Relief Society Pres. told me not to worry that they will help me and we have done it for other girls in the Ward.
            Royce plans to take vacation time then too.
            Royce’s Aunt Mit has asked me to come to her house from the hospital until I am back on my feet.  She said she’d take the girls too so we have all sorts of offers of help so you musn’t worry over us.
            We had really wanted one of Lois girls to come so someone would be with our girls & had hoped to make a vacation for them but now that we are moving & will have to sell our place I am afraid we will have to stay pretty close to home.  Someone should be here all the time.  So Royce decided on taking some vacation time regardless.  We would like to have you come but we are wondering if you can take the trip.  I would worry over you traveling alone.  It would be different if you had someone to bring you.
            Also It will be our hottest time of the year and as you know we are not too well shaded.  In fact hardly at all.  I wouldn’t want you to come and make yourself sick.  I’d like you to enjoy it.  I don’t think there will be too much to do.  The children are pretty good workers if someone is supervising them all the time.  And as I say we’ve just painted & cleaned and I think things stay cleaner here.
            You’ll have to let us know if you can stand it.
            Don’t feel you have to come because we can get along.  We’ve a lot of wonderful friends but if you think it won’t be too hard on you, we would like to have you.
            I’ve nearly everything ready except a bed and chest of drawers.  We’ve been trying to pick them up second hand but haven’t succeeded yet.
            The Relief Society Sisters gave me a shower and gave me a high chair.  It’s one of those that fold down into a table & chair.  Also gave me a satin quilt.  Have to stop God bless you
                                                Love Pearl

[Added to the envelope with Pearl’s letter of July 5, 1953  so probably around July 7, 1953]

Dear Mother;
            I’ll just add a note to Pearls letter before sending it on.
            We arrived home o.k. without any trouble and were all ready to drop into bed.  We did go out for a little while to see the fireworks.  Went to the Dr. yesterday and John’s head healed beautifully.  He said to watch Janet.  Her head is still swollen there and she complained of it hurting yesterday so I had him look at it.  He said if she continues to complain to bring her in.
            Willard said he would come for you this week end.  He intended to go fishing around there sometime during the summer so I guess he will do it then and bring you home at the same time.
            Helen isn’t well and has been sick since the fourth upset stomach and headache like she always gets.  She will see the Dr. this week.  Pat & Jesse are fine also the children, they came over Sunday.
            Tell Jennette if she’s serious about going to work to come ahead and bring the three little ones.  Helen says she could stay in the apartment.  I could take care of Richard for her.  I don’t know what she would work at unless it’s at the telephone Co. while others have their vacations.  Don’t know whether it would pay or not she would lose her garden.  Anyway that would be something to consider.
            Hope all is well with you and that you’re enjoying your visit.  Tell Burnell & Jennette hello and the children, wish we were rich and could help out.  Hope the puddle jumper is running again so they’ll have some transportation.
                        Love from us all.
                                    Mary [Davidson]
P.S.  It’s awfully hot here.  Bishop’s meeting is here tonight so will have to get busy.

                                                     July 14, 1953

Dear Mother,
            Just a note, because I am so tired I can hardly push the keys.  I guess Harold & I got about 2 hours sleep last night.  We had a very sick baby.  In fact I've never seen one so sick.  He is much better tonight tho, and has gone to sleep.  Sunday morning he was asleep, but as we started to eat lunch he woke up, and we brought him down stairs & put him in the buggy.  He sat there watching us, but he looked like he was going back to sleep.  Harold picked him up, and after a few minutes he realized he had a fever.  I gave him a quarter of an aspirin, and in an hour he looked ok again.  Then toward evening the fever came back, and Bro. Jones and Harold administered to him after church.  He woke up once Sun. night, a thing he hasn't done for at least 2 months.  Monday he seemed ok, but I could tell he was a little warm.  We broke our thermometer, so I borrowed one from Delores, and it was about 100 degrees.  I wasn't worried, but yet he had no sign of a cold, and acted like he might have had a stomach ache.  We took him in to see Dr. Jackson after Harold came from work, and he felt so good I felt rather foolish taking him in.  But the Dr. was rather worried.  He all of a sudden seemed very sick, and yet the only thing he could find was a slight inflamation of the right ear, and a swelling in the gland in the neck.  He gave him some pennicilin, and insisted we bring him back today.  After bed time last night he started getting hotter and hotter.  He would sleep for a few minutes then be awake again.  By midnight he was so hot I could hardly stand to hold him.  It was almost as tho his ittle neck burned my arm.  It was 105 degrees, and stayed that way for 4 or 5 hours.  I called the Dr. after 12, and he told me to increase the asperin, and to bath him.  But even using luke warm water it felt so cold against his skin we had to stop.  He would just scream when we put it near him.  The fever seemed to wear itself out by 6:30 this morning, and it hasn't come back altho he has been very restless, and has slept but little today.  But he is sleeping now, and I am just waiting to put Alice and Laura to bed so I can go to bed myself.  Yesterday was our Ward conference.  I mean Sunday.  I seem to have lost a day.  Harold was kept busy the whole day.  Sister Carwin was put in as Relief Society President.  She had a baby in January.  I don’t know whether you know her or not.   Sister Cunningham is her first counslor, and Amanda Willits her second counslor.
            The baby is awake again, and I will stop.  I must get all of them in to bed.  Take care of yourself, and write soon.
            We went up the canyon on the 4th, and Ken and Joyce and family came in on us on the 5th and Monday the 6th we went up to Estes Park, and over trail ridge and back to Granby and home.  Maybe the baby caught cold then I don’t know.
                                                            Lovingly,        [Laura]

[Harold concludes the letter in pen]

                                                                                                                                         7/16/53

Dear Mother,
            Laura didn’t even take time to sign her letter.  We are all well again.  Little Harold was a pretty sick boy.  Doc. Jackson was afraid for a while that it was meningitis but it didn’t develop and now the little fellow is as well as ever.  My hand too finally cleared up so that puts us all on the feeling fine list.
            Church is still a busy job, but it is enjoyable too.  At work we are still undecided as to what the Republican administration is going to do with the Bureau of Reclamation.  We had planned on getting a new home but have decided to wait until we know whats up.  I’m not worried but do feel that I would want to move back to Utah (Maybe not Salt Lake) if we had to start again - We must quit for now.  Good Luck and may the Lord bless you.            
                            With Love
                             Harold

                                                 July 21, 1953

Dear Mother,
            The baby is better.  By Thursday of last week he was well again, but he gave us quite a scare.  When we went up over Trail Ridge on the 6th of July with Ken and Joyce & family I had just a pair of nylon rompers on him, altho I had a blanket handy.  It was so hot in the vally, and when we went up high it still wasn’t cold until we got right up on top.  After he had been sweating all the time, and then taking him up there, I guess I wasn’t careful enough to see that he didn't take cold.  The nylon rompers don’t absorb any of the persperation, and he undoubtedly was cold.  Then when we got over to Granby Ken and Joyce left us to go back to Salt Lake, and Harold said he wanted to fish for an hour.  That was at 5:P.M.  None of us had had anything to eat since 11:A.M. But Harold went fishing.  He fished until 7:30 P.M. and by the time we got into Grandby from the river it was near 8 or maybe after.  He stopped to buy us a hamburger, and while he was gone Alice got her finger pinched in the window, and started screaming, and that made little Harold scream.  It was half an hour before we got him stopped.  The children all finally dropped off to sleep, and we got home about 10:30 P.M.  The baby didn't get sick until the following Sunday, but the infection must have started then.  Did I tell you that it was an infection in his ear, and a gland in his neck.  On Monday night his fever was 105 for hours, but wore itself out by 6:30 A.M.  He was cross for a day or two, but is his own sweet self again.  He has been such a good baby.  I have been completely worn out since he was sick.  I just can’t seem to get feeling good no matter now much rest I get.

            Harold’s vacation started last Saturday, and yet he hasn’t been home since except for meals, and sometimes not for meals.  This morning he did stay home tho because the toilet was broken, and he had to fix it.  Yesterday morning he spent at the office, and the afternoon at the stake farm, and the evening at the Stake House in meeting with Pres. Drury.  Tonight at 6:P.M. he left to go to Grand Junction to go fishing with Bob, He expects to be back Friday afternoon.  He has to be home then because he promised Mary Norris he would put in a strip of cement for her Friday evening.  I don’t know what he has planned for the rest of his vacation.  I know he needs to get away and have a rest.  But what he doesn’t seem to understand is that I too need a rest.  For the past two months I have felt that I have been on the verge of loosing my mind.  I can hear you say “Laura don’t talk that way.” and I am not writing this to cause you to worry, but rather to loosen the pent up feelings and emotions within me.  I must find release from the nightmarish feelings within me by putting them on paper and trying to annalyse them.  Whenever Harold has any time off he uses it to go fishing.  There is no other means of recreation or relaxation for him.  Anything else just does not exist for him.  He knows too that he doesn’t want any of the children around when he is fishing.  If they are, he has to watch them, and can’t concentrate on this fishing.  (By the way the day we went to Granby Alvin and Louis followed him up the river, and came back with him wet up to their necks.  They had to take off their clothes and put a jacket on with another one around their legs.)  In Estes Park he fished 3 or 4 times a week, and still wasn’t content.  Sometimes I wonder why he ever got married at all.  If he had a fishing pole and a stream that is all he would need.  Since he won’t have any of the children around when he is fishing, some years ago I made such a fuss about holidays, and the family spending them together, that he has been very good in spending them with us at the park, or riding or picnicing in the mountains, but every minute of it I feel he is doing it because he feels it his duty to do so rather than for any love of association with me and the children.  Every stream he passes he lets us know whether it would be good fishing or bad.  I don’t believe he ever sees the beauty of nature around him except in a stream.  I don’t believe he has ever notice the beauty of a sunset unless the children or I pointed it out to him.  In Denver each summer the post puts on a summer operetta like Sat Lake used to at Nibly Park.  He took me once, because it was my birthday, and he asked me where I would like to go.  Every summer there is a concert series at the Red Rocks theatre, which included a variety of things, Music, and ballet.  Every summer there is an Opera at Central City.  It doesn’t enter his head that I might like to go to some of these.  There is a colored light demonstration nightly from the middle of the lake in City Park, and it wasn’t until last summer that we ever saw them, and then because the children insisted that we stay.  I know I am being petty, but I also know that my soul is starving for some of the cultural things of this life.

            My body is worn out from the continual round of cleaning, washing, meals, babies etc.  I don’t believe I would care, or be so tired if I had a diversion occasionally.  What a pity that the stream and a fishing pole don’t hold the enchantment for me that it does for Harold. He will be home Friday, and then the week-end will as always be so busy we won’t see him, and I haven’t complained when I know that he is doing the job that has been given him.  Monday is always a big day for me with washing etc.  But I have decided that Tuesday Morning I will take Betty and Jane and go on a vacation for 3 days.  I have always wanted to see the Mount Rushmore Memorial in South Dakota, and the Black Hills., and the wonderful caves over there.  It is about a 6 hour drive.  And tho I have never driven that far alone before I am going.  I’ve got to get away for a few days or loose my sanity.  This past week when I have been so completely tired Harold has insisted that I wean the baby.  However I don’t know yet whether I will wean him, or take him with me.  Jane & Betty and I could easily take care of him, altho we wouldn’t be able to leave the car very much because he is so heavy.  He weighs 18 lbs. and is quite a load even to hold while we go to church.  I know he would be better off at home, and I believe Harold will take good care of him and the others.  I haven’t told Harold yet of my plans, and he withdrew the last of the money in the bank today so that he could go to Grand Junction, and leave me with some food in the house, so I had to send a letter to the Bank in Salt Lake.  I have $30.00 in our account there, and I am going to use it to go on.  Goodness knows I shouldn’t.  There are so many other places it should go, but that has always been my way of thinking.  I shouldn’t spend anything foolishly, yet Harold can pay 17 dollars for a fishing pole, and another $8.00 this week for a reel. And goodness knows how much for hooks and line and bate etc.  Plus boots, & jacket etc.

            I just hope I wont think of all the reasons why I shouldn't take such a trip, and then back out on it.  Betty & Jane and I all need new shoes, and I am going to get them if I have to charge them before we go.  That is just another reason why I should forget the whole thing and stay home, but this time I can’t.  We’ll go even if we have to wear our old shoes.

            Well, to finish off with something more pleasant.  I did have a happy birthday.  Louis gave me a pair of ear rings with pink stones in them.  He bought them with money he had saved.  The other 3 children had saved $19.00 and wanted to buy me some dishes.  When Harold saw what they wanted to do he put in another $17.00 and got me a 63 piece set of china.  It is really lovely.  It is something I don’t want to use unless we have company.  We were down to just enough plates to go around, and I guess I will have to buy some every day plates, because these are too lovely to use for every day.  Harold had asked me for a date on my birthday 2 weeks before, but the night before he was up till 1:A.M. so we went to bed early.  We are both pretty well worn out.  I started this letter at 9:P.M. and it is now 10 minutes to 11: P.M. so I guess I had better get to bed.  Maybe you can write and tell me if I am a little off the beam on this vacation business.  Maybe I am looking at it all wrong.
                                                                        Your loving daughter,
                                                                                    Laura

[Pencil margin note:] If you want to show this letter to Mother Carlson, you can.  I haven’t written to her since the baby was born.

[Mailed with Laura’s letter of  July 21, 1953,  postmarked July 22, 1953]

                                                June 5, 1953

Dear Grandma
            How are you I am fine and so are the rest of us
We got out of school the 4th I got 3 A on my
report card my next teachers name will be
Mrs Remley and we get new desks and
chairs Alvin made me a purse it is green
with tan laceing and it has a red snap
Betty made a clay doll in school and we
are all fine I hope you can read my   over
letter something was wrong with the
pen

                        Lovingly
                                    Jane Carlson

[note from Laura] I found this letter in this stamped envelope.  It surely got way-laid

                                                  July 23rd 53
My Dear Laura,
            I just got your letter and am glad Baby Harold is better, but sorry that you are feeling so bad and down hearted.  Maybe Harold was feeling the same way as you are and glad to take off, feeling that the children are secure with you, but you just can’t leave them as he has done.  They are your care and his, but he doesn’t see things as you do, and at times it takes all your strength and courage to endure.  You have been upset with the Baby being sick and maybe other things not going the way you want.  Things will straighten out but you will have to pull yourself together and let things go slow for our bodies can’t stand all the strain that sometimes we are called on to endure.  But we must call upon the Lord and He will give us strength.  There is always an evil power trying to upset us, and will if we let it, like David of old Testament times when he said, ( Why art thou cast down O My Soul, and why art thou disquited within me.  I shall praise the Lord who is the Health of my countenance and my God.) So you see we have always got to be on the look out for the evil one and put ourselves in our Heavenly Father’s care.  I know you are thankful that the little fellow is well again.  Don’t leave him Laura.  Why don’t you come home, in the bus, I know it would be hard in this hot weather.  Jennette just came in while I am writing this.  She would just love for you to come and stay with her.  I hope ;you will be feeling better before you get this. Merrill came with Jennette.  He is in the Tabiona Band and they play in the Parade tomorrow.  They go back tomorrow, after the Parade.  May the Lord Bless you and Harold so that you will Love and Sympathize with one another, and help one another all you can to live lives of respect and helpfulness one towards another.  Don’t do anything rash, just try to keep your mind calm and Thankful for Blessings.  It will be too bad if Harold’s Fishing trips will be a curse to you all, instead of pleasure for him.  He ought to take some of the children with him when he goes and give you a little relief from some of the cares of being with them all the time.  May the Lord strengthen you Laura
                                                   Lots of Love, Mother.
I won’t let Mother Carlson read the letter.  She gets upset too easily
                                                   Aug. 10, 1953

Dear Mother,
            Your letter came today, and I’m sorry you had to worry about me.  But I have been worried for a long time, but I am sure the worst is over.  After you called last Friday night Harold gave me a blessing.  I guess I had kind of lost faith in myself.  The blessing he gave me set me back on the right track.  The medicine the Dr. gave me has helped too.  I’ve been taking it since last Tuesday, nearly a week.
            The headaches I get are not real headaches, but I get so tense I bite my teeth & my jaws get sore & cause my head to ache.  It is just a tightening of the muscles & nerves.  It seems as tho when I did take time to sit down to read or rest I was accusing myself for not doing something that should be done, which of course is poor thinking, because there is always something to be done.  And like Helen told me over the phone I've got to learn to sit down and relax & forget the work sometimes.
            I am going to try to go to Relief Society work meeting tomorrow.  They are having a social in the afternoon for Mary Haslam & the out going officers.  They asked me to take the Theology lesson again, but I’m not going to.  It would mean 2 Sunday afternoons a month besides the lesson, and those 2 Sundays Harold is gone too, and the children are left to themselves.
            I am conciously trying to do everything to get feeling completely well again.  No Mother, you don’t need to come.  But you don’t know how thankful I am that you were praying for me.  And it was so good to hear your voice.  You just sounded so much like yourself.  I know that I must not loose faith, and I know too that I can’t do all that I want to do, or that is apparent to be done.  I guess there come a time in everyone’s life when they find out that they can’t do everything.  I've got to remember that if a thing can’t get done today it can wait till tomorrow.
            This evening Delores asked me to come over & watch television for half an hour, so after the children were in bed I went over, but a good part of the time I kept thinking I should be home writing to you, or fixing a dress to wear to Relief Society tomorrow.  You see, I’ve got to teach myself all over again to relax.  I have steadily gained weight again like I did after Alice was born, & weigh as much now as when Harold Danny was born.  I’m not going to try to loose any tho till I get feeling better, except stop eating sweets.
            Harold is at Bishop’s meeting tonight but they have been getting thru about 10:30 lately.
            Harold knew I wasn't feeling well, & when he came in at night he wouldn't talk to me for fear of disturbing me, & he would let me lay in bed in the morning getting up himself without letting me know he was up, and we would go for days without even talking except at supper, & there is no chance to talk then.  But the past few days he has been trying to spend more time at home.  Sat. we all went to a drive in & left the 3 little ones home.  Yesterday I was very tired, & didn't want to go to church, but went in the evening.  It was Alice’s birthday.  We got a load of Sand for her Sat. & the children bought her some little trinkets, & balloons.  She was surely happy.  Yes I made birthday cakes for all 3 & decorated them.
            Betty got a Bicycle.  Harold found a used one for $11 & he painted it.
            Louis got a croquet set.  For their birthday we went to the park & had supper.  The first time this year.
            It is 10:30 & I must get to bed.  I had no intention of staying up so late.  Thank you Mother for your letters, and now good night.
            Lovingly,
                        Laura

Harold came home last night after bishop meeting & said he had to take another week off because of a ceiling on annual leave built up & he wants to take me & the baby & Alice to Salt Lake in Sept.

            Denver
            8/10/83

 P.S.  I did not tell Laura I was writing.

Dearest Mother

            It was good to talk with you the other night on the phone.  And your call back was just what Laura needed.  We had a long talk after you called and Laura felt 100% better.  Since then things have been fine.  Laura does become extremely tired by night time but she has held up her spirits and that is 90% of the battle. 
            It’s hard to figure out just what the trouble has been.  It seemed that Laura she was getting more tired every day.  Then when my vacation came up and I took two days to go fishing it must have been the straw that broke the camels back.  My staying home with the children while she and the two older girls drove up to South Dakota didn't help very much at all.  She returned home as depressed as ever.  I talked her into going to see the Doctor and later called him and talked over the problem with him.  He said Laura was not at all in a bad way physically but that her nerves were shot and we were going to have to snap her out of it.  That gave me the idea of calling you and having you visit us.  It would have been fine if you could come.  But when you couldn't your calling was the next best thing.  I also promised the Doctor I would spend more time with my family even if I had to let some of the Church work go for a while.  Then when I talked to Laura and promised her that we would take the rest of our recreation together it made all the difference in the world in her.  She has been tired buy happy from that moment.
            I am sure we can work things out if I do my part and I promise to do my part with all my heart.  My wife and children mean everything to me so it won’t be difficult for me to show it.  I will try to do as you suggested and not criticize Laura on the way she handles the children.  She has a tremendous job with seven of them and so little to do it with but if I help all I can with the help of the Lord we will make it.
            The children are all well and I am sure that within a week Laura will be tops again too.  I will send you the money for your phone call on payday Thursday.  Love Harold

[Postcard 236-B - Double Spirals on Iron Mountain Highway to Mt. Rushmore Memorial, Black Hills, So. Dak.  There are several Pig Tail Bridges in the Black Hills.  They are constructed for the purpose of reaching higher or lower elevation in a mountainous area.]

To: Jane S. Davidson, 3112 So 7th East, Salt Lake City, UTAH       [Postmarked Aug 12, 1953]

Betty, Jane & mother
went to the Black
Hills on vacation.
they bought, the
rest of us children
a souvenier from
there.  Sure hope
your feeling good

            Alvin